One of the most common issue, we all have ups and downs.
Sometimes we fall and sometimes we rise and sometimes we just want to share our feelings with someone to feel relaxed and light
But many times, the trust is not seen when told, they try to talk to others about what has been confidesd to them with or without knowledge of the whole matter
That’s why half knowledge is dangerous and might lead to unwanted issues. If you can’t keep in your mind, or stomach tell that person please don’t discuss your personal issues with me in a very polite and sincere way. Helping and healing has to be trustful, confidential and respectful.
We may think that’s it’s ok to share with just one more person, that person shares it with one more person and the chain grows on until a full circle to come back to that innocent soul who confided in you for support. Yes, we may not be able to help them out of the issue but there are two things we can do even if have or don’t have problems of our own & they are:
Lend an ear, lend a support : you’d be as good as you would if you lend support just by lending an ear and listening to their problems
Positive thoughts and vibes come in abundance: if anyone is lacking them, share them, as they cost you nothing but bring in happiness for both of you.